This week my kids are at Vacations Bible School (VBS). And thank God for VBS--I mean that sincerely! They love the activities and being with new friends and I love the space 5 mornings in a row to work, rest and see my own friends.
One of the things my kids are learning this week is to be on the look out for "God sightings." VBS ends each day gathering the kids together for a short recap of the day and on Wednesday I arrived a few minutes early and got to listen in as I was standing in a dark hallway adjacent to where the kids were gathered. A woman from the front asked the room full of kids if any had God sightings they wanted to share. Immediately more than half of the kids raised their hands with urgency, hoping to be called on and their responses were beautiful: someone sharing with someone else, butterflies, fun days with friends, nature... Then one kid said, "I get bullied a lot on the bus and so I see God when someone on the bus is nice to me when others are mean."
Cut to me in the dark hallway trying unsuccessfully to blink back tears. In an instant, I was overwhelmed with sadness as I was confronted with the reality of bullying and also filled with gratitude that there are courageously kind kids who are willing to step into those situations. And I was in awe that this particular kid can recognize that as a God Sighting--God as Emmanuel, God with him in that horrible moment.
A minute later, VBS was over and I joined the throng of parents rushing in to pick up their kids and depart for the day. But I keep thinking back to hearing the kids share their God Sightings. If I stood up on Sunday morning and asked for those at church with me to share God sightings, would we (would I?) have anything to share? I often ask God to give me eyes to see "God sightings" but so often I simply go about my day not noticing anything. And could God be calling me, calling us, to be Jesus to those around us who need it (like the kid on the bus) and do I have the eyes to see or ears to hear those invitations? How much more vibrant would my faith feel if I were more aware of God's movement around and through me? Surely it would be so exciting to daily be aware of the ways God is rescuing and reconciling and offering hope to those around us. Here's to "God Sightings" and having eyes to see them and the willingness to share them with those around us.
Fifteen years ago I interviewed for entrance to a Master’s of Urban and Regional Planning program, and as these type of interviews often go I was asked to tell a bit about myself and why I wanted to become an urban planner. Not knowing the rules of propriety on these type of things I began to explain to them that I was a Christian, that I had been heavily impacted by Augustine’s work City of God and because of this believed that as a Christian I wanted to work to make the city a great place for all people to live, whatever their faith may be. My host looked back across the table from me and simply responded, “oh… I’m an atheist.” They accepted me for admission and gave me a scholarship and I was off to transform culture.
I started my life in a rural Pentecostal church led by some Jesus Freaks that had gotten into James Dobson. My upbringing was full of my family trying to making sure that we did not do that which the culture did - we were against culture. The TV show “Who’s the Boss” was off-limits because Tony and Angela lived together, even if he was her housekeeper and they were only friends. It had the appearance of evil and that was enough. He-Man and She-Ra were out because they both clearly were involved with the occult - as were the Care Bears. Mr. Rogers should be watched only in moderation, for of course he was really only about being a nice person (aka works righteousness), and he was a Presbyterian which made us additionally suspicious.
I wound up going to a Presbyterian (of all places) college ministry when I arrived at University of Washington. While there I had a radical change of heart about how to approach the world. I had two major voices: one was from my pastor and the other was my professors in my Comparative Religion major at a public university. My pastor, Mike Gaffney, was always going to Genesis 12 to talk about how we were supposed to be a blessing to culture, yet at first I couldn’t understand how that worked if we were always making sure to tell people that we don’t celebrate Halloween because it’s “the devil’s day.” As my professors started pointing me to read historical theology I realized that not only was my previous dispensational premillenial theology a chronologically new view, but it was a view that was not prone to transform culture as it was instead more oriented to shy away from culture. Richard Niebuhr describes the ethics of the “Christ against culture” group as being predominated by the ethic of holiness - or separatedness for the Gospel (Niebuhr, Christ and Culture, xliv). This makes sense if we are to understand ourselves as the new Israel because we are replacing them, yet biblically the model doesn’t seem to be a perfect fit as we are instead admonished to be “in the world, but not of it.” (John 17:15-18).
As I started looking more into the idea that as Christians we should be salt, I realized that this metaphor might mean that we are not simply salty as an act of preservation to stem rot or decay, but perhaps instead we should be salt in the world to add flavor (Matthew 5:13). This overarching narrative that culture is hopelessly rotting simply no longer held the same sway to me biblically. Instead I started to read and listen to leaders from today and the past that were culture changers. People like Jonathan Edwards and Samuel Hopkins, people like Tim Keller, but that is just the beginning. During my studies in urban planning I was able to write great papers on Augustine as well as Calvin’s Geneva. This view that we are not so much establishing a new society, but instead transforming society does seem to be a departure from Israel’s model, and I believe it is. This is one of the areas in which we see that Genesis 12 is simply setting the stage for God’s long term plan for His people of blessing. It is not a blessing from the outside, but a blessing from within.
This idea that we are to transform culture might reach its culmination in Paul’s interaction at the Areopagus in Acts 17. In Acts 17 we see Paul do something that should shock us as we read from a straight Hebraic perspective in which Paul is willing to tell the Greeks that they have some measure of truth in their own underlying worldview - but it was incomplete and used to point to the greater truth of the God that has made Himself fully known in Jesus Christ.
If I didn’t think that we should transform culture I would be stuck. I am far too rigid in my understanding of our call toward holiness to essentially assimilate the church to culture, yet I have a hard time reconciling the ministry of Jesus with the ethic of Christ against Culture as Jesus seems to consistently step into situations that are more transformative than combative. While the being “against culture” makes sense in its continued emphasis to holiness, looking at the miracles of Jesus we see the compassion of Christ at times trumping ritual cleanliness laws. He touched a woman that had been bleeding for 12 years in Luke 8, He talks with a promiscuous Samaritan woman at a well and she even tries to tell Him that He probably shouldn’t do this in John 4.
As I read through Scripture I see again and again that God is transforming the culture. He has been doing this from the beginning by taking cultural idols in Genesis and crushing them - he took on primogeniture by elevating Abel over Cain, Jacob over Esau, Joseph over his brothers. He took on polygamy by showing how poorly it turns out for all parties involved, from Hagar and Sarah to the sister-wives Leah and Rachel. God breaks down the cultural expectation of slavery by elevating Hagar - and these three examples of God transforming culture by speaking into it occur only in the first book of the Bible. The list could go on and on.
I'd love to hear your thoughts so feel free to add something to the comments below or come and talk to me at church about this some Sunday. - Asher
A few weeks ago, my son told me, “I love you more than God.” While this was touching, it also made me think about my heart toward my Father in Heaven. When I first committed my life to him, I wanted all my thoughts, words, and behaviors to be dedicated to him. But that was almost two decades ago. I often neglect to love him as I committed to love him in my spiritual infancy. Edson’s love for me reminds me how I’m meant to love God. I am meant to put all my trust in him, ask him about everything, come to him when I’m in need, and come to him just to spend time with him. He loves all of me, and he knows what I need. He is so wonderful to spend time with, and when I love God like Edson loves me, I’m most at peace.
And as Edson grows and sees more of my shadow, the sin that is invisible to him now, it is my prayer that he redirects his passionate and faithful love toward the father who loves him in ways I cannot. I read something once about the time in a father’s life when he loses his position as a God-like figure in his kids’ eyes. They start to see him as the imperfect human he is, with light but also with darkness. Losing that kind of intense love can feel traumatic. Fathers often reflect on this season as one they have to cope with. Yet if my children don’t lose the ability to love unrestrainedly, but rather send that love to a worthy recipient, then I will rejoice.
So this is my call for this season: to let go of my goals for my life, let go of my anxieties, to rest in him. I think that if I can love God in similar ways Edson loves me, my soul will be transformed and I will bear more fruit. And as my children begin to see me for the man I really am, a pretty good dad who also harms others and often thinks of himself first, I hope to not try to resist the natural change in our relationship, but rather help them see where they can direct their admirational, unconditional, and wholly trusting love. The deserving recipient is God; he will not disappoint.